Tuesday, 26 April 2016

How a cold shower can help relieve stress


A stressful day often calls for a warm, soothing leisurely bath to calm the nerves and relax tense muscles. Calming bath aromas and romantic candles are extra balms that add to the serenity. With this in mind, a jolting cold shower is the last thing you think you may want as a stress reliever. Believe it or not, though, a cold shower is what you actually need.
Here is something even stranger, particularly if you live in the cold regions of Australia such as New South Wales or Victoria…our bodies love cold water. Brrrrrrr!! How so?
A cold water shower or a chilling ice bath has numerous health benefits. According to Ned Brophy, a sports scientist who advocates cold water therapy, immersion in cold water changes blood flow direction “from the peripheral to deep blood vessels, thereby limiting inflammation and swelling and improving venous return (the amount of blood returning to the heart).” With improved venous return, a person’s "metabolites and waste products built up during exercise can be efficiently removed by the body and nutrients quickly replenished to fatigued muscles.” In other words, cold water helps the body improve its detoxification process. A little aside: the famous actress, Katharine Hepburn, was quite the advocate of such hydrotherapy.
Because cold water helps the body detoxify itself, it can beef up your immunity and improve blood circulation. Cold water can be shock, especially early in the morning but that is what makes it therapy. As cold water hits your body, it shocks it into breathing deeply and jumpstarting your heart to rapid pumps. This causes one to take in more oxygen to feed muscles and tissues via better blood flow. The benefits accrue to lower blood pressure, better cardiovascular health, ramped up energy, and improved sense of well-being.
As the bonds of the body and brain are closely linked, better physical health oftentimes translates to better mental health as well. If cold showers and baths can do wonders for the body, these can do good for the mind, too.

Cold Showers Lower Depression

Ice cold baths and showers jolt the skin receptors which transmit an intense volume of electrical impulses from the skin’s nerves to the brain, driving it to produce beta-endorphins and noradrenaline. Beta-endorphins are pain suppressors. Noradrenaline or nor epinephrine is a feel-good neurotransmitter much like dopamine and serotonin as it lifts moods and has an antidepressive effect. In fact, noradrenaline is present in several antidepressant drugs. Cold water can simply call up these two brain chemicals to provide a quick pick-me-up without side effects of medication.
The brain has a “blue spot,” the main production centre of the natural antidepressant, noradrenaline. Research at the Virginia University School of Medicine disclosed that short cold showers stimulate this spot toward noradrenaline production. A depressed person usually registers low amounts of noradrenaline so production stimulation of this hormone helps better his moods.

Cold Showers Increase Resilience to Stressors

We love comfort so much that many of us negate exercise for the comfort of the couch, opt for fast food takeouts instead of a home-cooked nutritious meal, or take the car instead of walking down a few blocks. In our quest for comfort, we weaken our bodies instead of strengthening it. What we need is to subject ourselves to stress gradually to help us develop our ability to adapt to it.
An icy bath plunge or a freezing shower is a stressor. Although cold showers are definitely not on most people’s daily bucket list, subjecting one’s body to the cold bath stressor builds up its tolerance level, making it stronger in many aspects.

Cold Showers Reduce Anxiety

When one’s anxiety levels start to rise, for sure their cortisol levels are way off base as well. When this happens, our blood pressure goes up in response.
Cortisol is a steroid hormone also known as hydrocortisone. It is part of the fight-or-flight reaction to stress as it shuts down what it deems as non-essential body functions such as reproduction and immune system actions in order to channel the body’s resources in dealing with the threat.
Research by the University of Osaka in Japan revealed that cold water therapy could decrease cortisol levels thereby helping relieve anxious people of their doom-and-gloom outlook, at least for some time.
Cold showers can toughen up a person’s nervous system and make him more tolerant of stress. As cold showers can double as oxidative stress, the body in time can be made to adapt to it. When the body becomes more resilient, the mind follows suit; so at length, anxiety levels may markedly decrease and moods may stabilize.
So, if you’ve been in doldrums lately, embrace the cold. There’s nothing as cheap, healthy, and side-effect-free as the bite of a nice cold shower to perk up your morning and your overall health.

Tuesday, 1 March 2016

How Emotionally Intelligent People Deal with Difficult Persons



Negativity drains people’s wills and emotions and derails them from achieving their goals. Some people wallow in negative attitudes and thoughts, making them difficult to deal with. Unfortunately we are bound to know or run into a few of them. They may be a colleague, a boss, an in-law, or a gym classmate. In the reality of an imperfect world, we cannot always be surrounded by people we like; so, we must learn to deal with those we don’t.
It is worth knowing how to deal effectively with negative or difficult people. For one, toxic individuals can stress one out. If you are in a situation that calls for dealing with people who dish out emotional toxicity on a frequent basis, you must take steps to manage your stress from sucking out your emotional vitality.
Keeping all that negativity in check from rubbing off on you may require some forethought and effort. Here are some advice emotionally intelligent people may give you for handling toxic people:

Set Personal Boundaries

People who know their self worth are not afraid to set their boundaries and stick to them. Emotionally intelligent people have realized that they are in control of what they want or not want to do. They are equipped to handle guilt trips, anger, emotional withdrawals, and other conscious or unconscious actions people take when someone says “No” to their requests or demands.
One does not have to be rude to say No. A polite but firm refusal should send the message of your limits and your expectation of respect for these limits. To illustrate: If you happen to need the day to shop, relax, and get ready for a personally important Christmas party, yet your tiresome Aunt Cora requests you to accompany her “for a little while” to do her own Holiday shopping, you can choose to politely turn her down. Yes, doing so may merit her ire especially if you have been her “yes man” for quite a while; but in the long run, she will learn that you are no pushover. More importantly, you will not think of yourself as one either.
You cannot please everyone, no matter how reasonable you are. The sooner you realize this, the better you will be at respecting yourself and sticking to your personal limits.

Pick Your Battles; Win Your Wars

Emotionally smart people know when to let go and when to dig their heels in. If you let your emotions get the better of you and get sucked into fighting a difficult adversary bent on emotional blackmail, you probably won’t make it out emotionally in one piece.
Distance yourself from your emotions and take stock of how difficult people push your buttons. This way you get to analyse why they do it and how they do it. With this information, you can more or less plan how to react and how to stand your ground later on. You will also get to know where to draw your intolerance line. As the saying goes, “Know thy enemy.”
In the interim, treat difficult people with civility. Being equally rude will only serve to exacerbate their negative behaviour for which you may be scathed. So while they haven’t crossed your tolerance line, maintain poker-faced diplomacy.

No One Can Dampen Your Happiness, Unless You Allow It

People who have a strong emotional quotient tend to have high self-esteem. They do not permit anyone’s negative opinions to take away the joy from their personal accomplishments. Emotionally intelligent individuals measure their achievements against their personal capacity and the circumstantial odds stacked against them. This strong belief in self make snide remarks or overt criticisms roll like water off a duck’s back.

Stick to Facts, Not What-Ifs

Negative people can leave you following disconsolately along their dismal line of thought. The trick is not to get caught up in their irrational behaviours and hopelessness. Assess the facts and controllable issues. Can something be done with these? If so, look for the solution to these. Do not waste time stressing over what you cannot control.

Take Care of Yourself Physically

The mind and body are tied. A physically fit body often goes hand-in-hand with some degree of mental tenacity. A balanced diet, consistent exercise, and rest are the basic foundations to your general well-being and mental health.
Physical fitness is a contributory factor to self-esteem and positivity; so being very healthy also means being more impervious to the pitfalls of stress and anxiety. In this case, difficult people have less power to stress you out.
Try to limit caffeine and alcohol consumption. This goes without saying to stay away from smoking and recreational drug consumption.
There are other ways to handle difficult people; but, the important thing is having control over your reactions. You can never control other people but only you can control your attitudes, emotions, and behaviour. Use this knowledge wisely.
References:
http://www.entrepreneur.com/article/243913
http://www.success.com/article/defend-your-boundaries-to-take-back-control

Tuesday, 16 February 2016